Tuesday, November 6, 2012

A Political Evolution

I was born in the late 60's in Small Town, USA.  My childhood was an episode of "Leave it to Beaver" set in Mayberry.  It was great.

So how did this small-town girl get interested in politics?  After much thought, I can answer that.  It wasn't one event, it was an evolution.

When my daddy would come home from work each night, he would sit down with the newspaper while Momma fixed supper.  Often, I would sit by his chair, looking over his shoulder and read with him.  I loved the comics part of the paper, but I wasn't so sure about the cartoon on the political page.  It wasn't quite as funny as Peanuts.  I would ask my daddy about what it meant and he would attempt to explain it to me.  Sometimes he admitted it didn't make much sense to him, and other times he would launch into a detailed explanation of a current event that would either enthrall or bore me.  My daddy was a democrat back then, from a long line of staunch democrats.  His family wouldn't buy gas at a station until they verified the owner was a fellow democrat.  These people were hard-core.

When the political cartoon was about communism, it was different.  Daddy owned a business that was involved with a company from Germany.  He would make trips to Germany, and he always came home with great stories.  When the cartoon was about communism, he would pull me up on his lap and tell me about some sad stories from his trip.  He would tell me about the Berlin wall, and his trip to East Germany.  He had gone through Checkpoint Charlie, and he told me how scary and difficult it was to enter the world of communism.  While the stores had ads for all sorts of goods, they were actually empty; people stood in long lines just for simple items like bread.  He laughed when he told of going to a restaurant with an elaborate menu, but everything he attempted to order was unavailable.  Finally he and his friends asked the simpler question, "What do you have?" The list was short.  His countenance was sad and reflective as he told of the people he met and all he saw.  When I asked why they lived like that, he explained the big differences between communism and our life of liberty.  I didn't fully understand, but I wanted to.

The first time my daddy voted for a Republican, it was for Gerald Ford.  I remember him talking about his taxes, and how hard he works for so much of it to be taken by the government.  In junior high, when Ronald Reagan ran for office, and my friend's parents swore he would start WWIII, my daddy reassured me it wasn't true--we needed a man with those ideas in office.  The ideas of Carter and the democrats were running our country into ruin and we needed to turn it around.  When I asked my grandma why she was a democrat, her standard response was that the democrats are the party of the little people.  Hoover was a republican, and he almost ruined our country until FDR saved it.  Looking back on it later, I realized my grandma didn't really think that one through.

In college I lived with three Reagan-hating democrats.  I didn't know enough about it to argue, and the truth is, I didn't care enough to want to.  One time Reagan came to my campus and I walked to see his motorcade drive through.  To this day, I promise that man looked right at me, made eye contact, smiled and waved (of course), and I was giddy.  Not that my roommates understood. The big political issue on campus then was the shanty town built to bring about awareness of Apartheid.  As I walked by those people in the cardboard houses day after day, I never did understand how that helped anyone in South Africa.  It seemed fairly useless to me.  I was to later understand the liberal philosophy of symbolism over substance was behind it all.  At the time, I just came to the conclusion that they really hadn't thought it through.

After I married and became a momma, I was acutely aware of every cartoon, book, and tv show that could influence my children.  My radar was constantly up, evaluating the toys at the burger joints, the laws that dictated how my children were to be taught to read, the popular books and shows; I was constantly educating myself about the deeper implications because I had learned things weren't always what they seemed. I really wanted to think it all through.

Then we started homeschooling.  As I taught my children American History, I learned far more than I could teach about our heritage.  The biggest leap in my political intrigue came when we dug into World History.  Over five years, we went through world history from creation to now, seeing the rise and fall of civilizations, the strength and decay of empires, the Dark Ages, the vikings, the Renaissance....you get the picture.  I felt my heart break as I imagined the families blown about by the winds of the political changes.  It seemed so sad that they had little to no control over their destinies.  Then I was dumbfounded by societies that made choices that put them on a path to their own ruin.  Why would someone choose this destiny?  What motivated them?  The founding of our country is even more astounding when put in the backdrop of World History because it is such an incredibly unique experiment.

I had a new appreciation for these United States.  Born of a diverse people who created their own identity, we became a world power in a short time.  The face, and the outcome, of WWI was changed when the doughboys showed up.  Europe was hanging by a thread when our WWII boys helped and the tide was turned.  People risked their very lives to come and live under the liberties of our country.

This experiment is not without its pitfalls, a huge one expressed by Alexis de Tocqueville, who said, "A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government.  It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury.  From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that a democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy, always followed by a dictatorship.  The average age of the world's greatest civilizations has been 200 years."

So many times I read and hear of events occurring over this great land, and I think to myself, "How can these people desire to give up these liberties of ours?  What is the motivation?  Is it security?"  I love Ben Franklin's observation, "They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety."

Yes, people desire to live secure lives.  If that means they sacrifice their freedoms on the altar of security, they willingly do so.  But what is the outcome of this?  How much have they thought this through?  

I love reading and hearing the stories of people who have come to America from other countries.  Their appreciation of our freedom and opportunity is so refreshing after seeing people take it for granted, or worse, scorn it, each day.  They are saddened by the track our great nation is on.  These people have thought it through.  They know the outcome.  

I often tell my children, who I have raised to think about these issues carefully, to not be so hard on people with whom they don't agree.  I explain that most people begin as a liberal.  I tell them about Winston Churchill's quip that a person who isn't a liberal by the age of 20 has no heart, and a person who isn't a conservative by the age of 30 has no brain. Liberalism is easy.  It is what our media tells us to be.  As a person who generally likes to just "flow" with things, I fit the bill for awhile.  Conservatism is harder.  It takes thought and energy.  To be a conservative, a person always has to think things through.  

I have the utmost respect for liberals who have thought it through, and simply come to a different conclusion than I. Our desired outcomes may differ, or our worldview may not be the same.  If, indeed, this is the case, so be it.  If, however, it is a liberal who hasn't thought it through....perhaps one who votes that way because their parents did....or perhaps they haven't an affinity for history and do not know that there is nothing new under the sun and people have trod this path before....I encourage them to think it through.  Learn of the people who have gone before and the outcomes that we can expect.  

In the meantime, I continue to evolve.  I want so badly to be someone who thinks it through.




Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Pink Ribbons: The Downside

I. Hate. Pink. Ribbons.

There.  I said it.

There are two things I dislike about October.  I'm not fond of Halloween (although I'm mellowing a bit on that one).  I really don't like the whole pink ribbon thing. 

Hear me out.

My mom died from breast cancer.  I have skin in the game, so to speak. 

That may be why it is such a passion of mine.

People do all sorts of wonderful things to raise money for breast cancer research.  They walk.  They sell special ribbon shaped bagels.  They dress NFL players in pink.  All of it is noble.  Their motives are pure and helpful.  There are a couple of problems, though.

Some of it really helps.  It comes down to money.  Research requires money.  So selling bagels in a ribbon shape, and donating a portion of the proceeds to research is a spectacular way to raise money.

I'm still trying to figure out how dressing those poor NFL players in pink helps anything.  If I walk to Timbuktu, how is that assisting any researchers?  It's about the money I raised for the walk.  No one benefits from me starving myself, walking, running or doing back handsprings.  They benefit from the funds I raise to do so.  So, if it takes a walk, a marathon, a golf tournament, to make it a social event and that raises more money, I get it.  My real problem isn't with the nonsensical events.

My real problem is with Susan G. Komen.

See, all these wonderful people are raising money hand over fist for breast cancer research.  A HUGE amount of it goes to the Susan G. Komen Foundation.  The Komen Foundation funds a lot of breast cancer research.  That is a noble thing.  What isn't noble, however, is that they give big chunks of money to Planned Parenthood.  Planned Parenthood is the nation's largest abortion provider.

Check out these links:
http://www.lifenews.com/2010/05/24/nat-6360/

http://liveaction.org/blog/the-susan-g-komenplanned-parenthood-connection/

http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/report-susan-g-komen-donated-over-600000-to-planned-parenthood-in-2009-201/

Better yet, do the research yourself. 

Then, if you start looking at all these pink tshirts, ribbons, yogurt tops, bagels, etc., you will see the Susan G. Komen Foundation plastered everywhere.

My mom died of breast cancer.  She, and people like her, are being exploited in order to fund abortions.  That would make her sad.  It makes me angry.

Please, please continue the efforts to raise money for breast cancer research.  Six out of seven women in my mom's family had breast cancer.  My sister's and my risk is very high, as are our daughters and granddaughters.  I watched my mom fight hard, and her victory eventually came when she went to meet Jesus. 

Please, please be discerning.  Research it and be clear about where the funds are going. If you want your funds to help breast cancer, then be sure it isn't funding abortion.  At this time, I am not comfortable recommending alternative foundations, but I am researching options.

The Latest

Imagine my excitement when a friend commented on missing my blog. 

"I looked at your blog to see what's new with you, and you haven't posted since May!"

Wow.

I'm missed.

Thank you, D!

So, where is my crew now?

The Big Boy is in his Junior Year at Mizzou.  He spent all summer studying for the MCAT.  It has been dubbed the summer of the MCAT.  It wasn't too bad, but we really don't want another one.  He studied a lot, but before you get to feeling too bad for him, understand he golfed a lot, too.  He also spent a lot of time at the hospital working in various departments.  So, in all, he had a good summer. 

He took the MCAT and did very well, thank you.  However, he isn't satisfied, so he will probably take it again.  It appears we will have an MCAT Christmas (Break) this year, too.

The Big Girl graduated from High School and is going to school in St. Louis.  She has had her share of traumatic experiences her first semester.  The biggest trauma was being involved in an accident her first week of school.  Someone ran a red light at an intersection and hit her, knocking her into another lane, where she was hit on the other side.  She and her friend were a bit bruised and sore, but ok.  We have been praising the Lord for that ever since.  Her car is still in the shop.  It has been a mess to get through all the hoops with the other person's insurance.  Suffice it to say, we learned folks really aren't in such good hands.......ah, well.  The biggest praise, other than her lack of injuries, is that she is doing great.  She has good friends, is doing well in her classes, is involved, and seems well-rested and well-adjusted in every respect.  Thanks, God!

The Things are in 7th and 8th grade.  We had a rough start in homeschool this year.  So, after a month or so of muddling through, I got my act together.  We have ratcheted up our schooling quite a bit.  The bar has been set higher, and they are responding well.  I'll do a post on some things I've learned later.  They are both active in the youth group.  They are doing well.

Hubs & I were treated to a trip to Maui in September through his company.  Had I not had two Things at home, he would never have gotten me on that plane to return to the Midwest.  I keep trying to convince him we can make a move to Maui work.  He can do the tour guide thing in the day (he'd be good at that), and learn to play the ukelele and sing at night. (He'd be really good at that!)  I'll wait tables.  I can do that.  At those prices, surely the tips will be good!  Right?

Some October happies to ponder:

Autumn leaves and beauty
A new iPhone (ordered!)
A new season of Psych starts tomorrow! 
Thing 2's braces have been removed!
New Casting Crowns album!
THE CARDINALS ARE IN THE PLAYOFFS! (Oct baseball = always good)

What can you add?

Monday, May 16, 2011

Wow! May Already? (Baccalaureate)

I would like to tell you what all has occurred since my last blog.  The problem is, I don't really remember.  I haven't completely lost my mind, and I don't believe I have amnesia.  It is just a fact of life.  It whirls by, and those many moments you think you will remember forever become a blur.

Words that pop into my mind when I think about the last few months include homeschool (of course), ski trip, Hilton Head, rain, floods, hail, tornadoes, Easter, Mother's Day, AWANA, piano, Thing 2 (birthday), tall kids, The Big Boy (home), and the big one on my radar right now is:  GRADUATION. 

The big party is Friday night.  Between now and then, the to-do list is gargantuan.  After that, maybe I can blog, showing pictures with the cool new camera Hubby gave me for Christmas (that I am just figuring out).

I have lots of blogs doing flip-flops in my mind.  Steel yourself for some politics, religion, and some analysis about motivation.

But first, the Big Girl's Baccalaureate was last night.  Baccalaureate has changed a little since I was young.  I find myself thinking it has "dwindled".  Because it has become so politically correct to make sure these whipper snappers know that they don't HAVE to come because Baccalaureate is a decidedly Christian event, and because they make it clear it is "optional", many don't come.  Although in theory that is a sad thing, I can't say that I blame them.  Often it is a dry message from an elderly gentleman with whom they have nothing in common.  To be perfectly honest, I didn't really want to go.  I was tickled to see the speaker last night was a class Dad, who related well to them as well as the rest of us, and gave a good message.  I was glad I went. 

It was so sweet to see the Gideons brave the rain to stand outside and give Bibles to the kids as they exited.  The Big Girl giggled when she discovered they all knew her Grandpa, a fellow Gideon.

Before we braved the rain and celebrated with some Dairy Queen, I snapped a couple of shots with my phone. The first is The Big Girl, The Big Boy, Thing 1 and Thing 2:


Next is The Big Girl with her Daddy:


 I promise the real pictures with my cool new camera will be much better....if I ever hook the thing up to a computer. 

Friday, December 24, 2010

While You Were Sleeping (Christmas)

Hubby is singing at our Christmas Eve service tonight. He is singing one of my all-time favorite songs, "While You Were Sleeping" (Christmas version) by Casting Crowns. The lyrics are so powerful.

While You Were Sleeping

Oh little town of Bethlehem
Looks like another silent night
Above your deep and dreamless sleep
A giant star lights up the sky
And while you're lying in the dark
There shines an everlasting light
For the King has left His throne
And is sleeping in a manger tonight, tonight

Oh Bethlehem, what you have missed while you were sleeping
For God became a man
And stepped into your world today
Oh Bethlehem, you will go down in history
As a city with no room for its King
While you were sleeping
While you were sleeping

Mary shivers in the cold
Trying to keep the Savior warm
Born among the animals wrapped in dirty rags
Because there was no room for Him in the world He came to save

United States of America
Looks like another silent night
As we're sung to sleep by philosophies
That save the trees and kill the children
And while we're lying in the dark
There's a shout heard 'cross the eastern sky
For the Bridegroom has returned
And has carried His bride away in the night

America, what will we miss while we are sleeping
Will Jesus come again
And leave us slumbering where we lay
America, will we go down in history
As a nation with no room for its King
Will we be sleeping
Will we be sleeping

United States of America
Looks like another silent night

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Christmas Glow


Christmas is a
Whispering candle
Heard all over the world....
Whose fragile and flickering
Light touched men
Everywhere,
Leading them through
The night...in prayer
And understanding,
So that all men might share
The sacredness of the season,
And walk and talk together
With the Prince of Peace.


-Annette Victorin

Copied from Christmas Ideals, Vol 27, No. 6, November, 1970.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

O Come O Come Emmanuel

"Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she will call His name Immanuel." Isaiah 7:14

Oh, come, oh, come, Emmanuel,
And ransom captive Israel,
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, our Wisdom from on high,
Who ordered all things mightily;
To us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, oh, come, our Lord of might,
Who to your tribes on Sinai's height
In ancient times gave holy law,
In cloud and majesty and awe.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come O Rod of Jesse's stem,
From ev'ry foe deliver them
That trust your mighty pow'r to save;
Bring them in vict'ry through the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, O Key of David, come,
And open wide our heav'nly home;
Make safe the way that leads on high,
And close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, our Dayspring from on high,
And cheer us by your drawing nigh,
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
And death's dark shadows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, Desire of nations, bind
In one the hearts of all mankind;
Oh, bid our sad divisions cease,
And be yourself our King of Peace.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!