Tuesday, November 6, 2012

A Political Evolution

I was born in the late 60's in Small Town, USA.  My childhood was an episode of "Leave it to Beaver" set in Mayberry.  It was great.

So how did this small-town girl get interested in politics?  After much thought, I can answer that.  It wasn't one event, it was an evolution.

When my daddy would come home from work each night, he would sit down with the newspaper while Momma fixed supper.  Often, I would sit by his chair, looking over his shoulder and read with him.  I loved the comics part of the paper, but I wasn't so sure about the cartoon on the political page.  It wasn't quite as funny as Peanuts.  I would ask my daddy about what it meant and he would attempt to explain it to me.  Sometimes he admitted it didn't make much sense to him, and other times he would launch into a detailed explanation of a current event that would either enthrall or bore me.  My daddy was a democrat back then, from a long line of staunch democrats.  His family wouldn't buy gas at a station until they verified the owner was a fellow democrat.  These people were hard-core.

When the political cartoon was about communism, it was different.  Daddy owned a business that was involved with a company from Germany.  He would make trips to Germany, and he always came home with great stories.  When the cartoon was about communism, he would pull me up on his lap and tell me about some sad stories from his trip.  He would tell me about the Berlin wall, and his trip to East Germany.  He had gone through Checkpoint Charlie, and he told me how scary and difficult it was to enter the world of communism.  While the stores had ads for all sorts of goods, they were actually empty; people stood in long lines just for simple items like bread.  He laughed when he told of going to a restaurant with an elaborate menu, but everything he attempted to order was unavailable.  Finally he and his friends asked the simpler question, "What do you have?" The list was short.  His countenance was sad and reflective as he told of the people he met and all he saw.  When I asked why they lived like that, he explained the big differences between communism and our life of liberty.  I didn't fully understand, but I wanted to.

The first time my daddy voted for a Republican, it was for Gerald Ford.  I remember him talking about his taxes, and how hard he works for so much of it to be taken by the government.  In junior high, when Ronald Reagan ran for office, and my friend's parents swore he would start WWIII, my daddy reassured me it wasn't true--we needed a man with those ideas in office.  The ideas of Carter and the democrats were running our country into ruin and we needed to turn it around.  When I asked my grandma why she was a democrat, her standard response was that the democrats are the party of the little people.  Hoover was a republican, and he almost ruined our country until FDR saved it.  Looking back on it later, I realized my grandma didn't really think that one through.

In college I lived with three Reagan-hating democrats.  I didn't know enough about it to argue, and the truth is, I didn't care enough to want to.  One time Reagan came to my campus and I walked to see his motorcade drive through.  To this day, I promise that man looked right at me, made eye contact, smiled and waved (of course), and I was giddy.  Not that my roommates understood. The big political issue on campus then was the shanty town built to bring about awareness of Apartheid.  As I walked by those people in the cardboard houses day after day, I never did understand how that helped anyone in South Africa.  It seemed fairly useless to me.  I was to later understand the liberal philosophy of symbolism over substance was behind it all.  At the time, I just came to the conclusion that they really hadn't thought it through.

After I married and became a momma, I was acutely aware of every cartoon, book, and tv show that could influence my children.  My radar was constantly up, evaluating the toys at the burger joints, the laws that dictated how my children were to be taught to read, the popular books and shows; I was constantly educating myself about the deeper implications because I had learned things weren't always what they seemed. I really wanted to think it all through.

Then we started homeschooling.  As I taught my children American History, I learned far more than I could teach about our heritage.  The biggest leap in my political intrigue came when we dug into World History.  Over five years, we went through world history from creation to now, seeing the rise and fall of civilizations, the strength and decay of empires, the Dark Ages, the vikings, the Renaissance....you get the picture.  I felt my heart break as I imagined the families blown about by the winds of the political changes.  It seemed so sad that they had little to no control over their destinies.  Then I was dumbfounded by societies that made choices that put them on a path to their own ruin.  Why would someone choose this destiny?  What motivated them?  The founding of our country is even more astounding when put in the backdrop of World History because it is such an incredibly unique experiment.

I had a new appreciation for these United States.  Born of a diverse people who created their own identity, we became a world power in a short time.  The face, and the outcome, of WWI was changed when the doughboys showed up.  Europe was hanging by a thread when our WWII boys helped and the tide was turned.  People risked their very lives to come and live under the liberties of our country.

This experiment is not without its pitfalls, a huge one expressed by Alexis de Tocqueville, who said, "A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government.  It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury.  From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that a democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy, always followed by a dictatorship.  The average age of the world's greatest civilizations has been 200 years."

So many times I read and hear of events occurring over this great land, and I think to myself, "How can these people desire to give up these liberties of ours?  What is the motivation?  Is it security?"  I love Ben Franklin's observation, "They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety."

Yes, people desire to live secure lives.  If that means they sacrifice their freedoms on the altar of security, they willingly do so.  But what is the outcome of this?  How much have they thought this through?  

I love reading and hearing the stories of people who have come to America from other countries.  Their appreciation of our freedom and opportunity is so refreshing after seeing people take it for granted, or worse, scorn it, each day.  They are saddened by the track our great nation is on.  These people have thought it through.  They know the outcome.  

I often tell my children, who I have raised to think about these issues carefully, to not be so hard on people with whom they don't agree.  I explain that most people begin as a liberal.  I tell them about Winston Churchill's quip that a person who isn't a liberal by the age of 20 has no heart, and a person who isn't a conservative by the age of 30 has no brain. Liberalism is easy.  It is what our media tells us to be.  As a person who generally likes to just "flow" with things, I fit the bill for awhile.  Conservatism is harder.  It takes thought and energy.  To be a conservative, a person always has to think things through.  

I have the utmost respect for liberals who have thought it through, and simply come to a different conclusion than I. Our desired outcomes may differ, or our worldview may not be the same.  If, indeed, this is the case, so be it.  If, however, it is a liberal who hasn't thought it through....perhaps one who votes that way because their parents did....or perhaps they haven't an affinity for history and do not know that there is nothing new under the sun and people have trod this path before....I encourage them to think it through.  Learn of the people who have gone before and the outcomes that we can expect.  

In the meantime, I continue to evolve.  I want so badly to be someone who thinks it through.




Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Pink Ribbons: The Downside

I. Hate. Pink. Ribbons.

There.  I said it.

There are two things I dislike about October.  I'm not fond of Halloween (although I'm mellowing a bit on that one).  I really don't like the whole pink ribbon thing. 

Hear me out.

My mom died from breast cancer.  I have skin in the game, so to speak. 

That may be why it is such a passion of mine.

People do all sorts of wonderful things to raise money for breast cancer research.  They walk.  They sell special ribbon shaped bagels.  They dress NFL players in pink.  All of it is noble.  Their motives are pure and helpful.  There are a couple of problems, though.

Some of it really helps.  It comes down to money.  Research requires money.  So selling bagels in a ribbon shape, and donating a portion of the proceeds to research is a spectacular way to raise money.

I'm still trying to figure out how dressing those poor NFL players in pink helps anything.  If I walk to Timbuktu, how is that assisting any researchers?  It's about the money I raised for the walk.  No one benefits from me starving myself, walking, running or doing back handsprings.  They benefit from the funds I raise to do so.  So, if it takes a walk, a marathon, a golf tournament, to make it a social event and that raises more money, I get it.  My real problem isn't with the nonsensical events.

My real problem is with Susan G. Komen.

See, all these wonderful people are raising money hand over fist for breast cancer research.  A HUGE amount of it goes to the Susan G. Komen Foundation.  The Komen Foundation funds a lot of breast cancer research.  That is a noble thing.  What isn't noble, however, is that they give big chunks of money to Planned Parenthood.  Planned Parenthood is the nation's largest abortion provider.

Check out these links:
http://www.lifenews.com/2010/05/24/nat-6360/

http://liveaction.org/blog/the-susan-g-komenplanned-parenthood-connection/

http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/report-susan-g-komen-donated-over-600000-to-planned-parenthood-in-2009-201/

Better yet, do the research yourself. 

Then, if you start looking at all these pink tshirts, ribbons, yogurt tops, bagels, etc., you will see the Susan G. Komen Foundation plastered everywhere.

My mom died of breast cancer.  She, and people like her, are being exploited in order to fund abortions.  That would make her sad.  It makes me angry.

Please, please continue the efforts to raise money for breast cancer research.  Six out of seven women in my mom's family had breast cancer.  My sister's and my risk is very high, as are our daughters and granddaughters.  I watched my mom fight hard, and her victory eventually came when she went to meet Jesus. 

Please, please be discerning.  Research it and be clear about where the funds are going. If you want your funds to help breast cancer, then be sure it isn't funding abortion.  At this time, I am not comfortable recommending alternative foundations, but I am researching options.

The Latest

Imagine my excitement when a friend commented on missing my blog. 

"I looked at your blog to see what's new with you, and you haven't posted since May!"

Wow.

I'm missed.

Thank you, D!

So, where is my crew now?

The Big Boy is in his Junior Year at Mizzou.  He spent all summer studying for the MCAT.  It has been dubbed the summer of the MCAT.  It wasn't too bad, but we really don't want another one.  He studied a lot, but before you get to feeling too bad for him, understand he golfed a lot, too.  He also spent a lot of time at the hospital working in various departments.  So, in all, he had a good summer. 

He took the MCAT and did very well, thank you.  However, he isn't satisfied, so he will probably take it again.  It appears we will have an MCAT Christmas (Break) this year, too.

The Big Girl graduated from High School and is going to school in St. Louis.  She has had her share of traumatic experiences her first semester.  The biggest trauma was being involved in an accident her first week of school.  Someone ran a red light at an intersection and hit her, knocking her into another lane, where she was hit on the other side.  She and her friend were a bit bruised and sore, but ok.  We have been praising the Lord for that ever since.  Her car is still in the shop.  It has been a mess to get through all the hoops with the other person's insurance.  Suffice it to say, we learned folks really aren't in such good hands.......ah, well.  The biggest praise, other than her lack of injuries, is that she is doing great.  She has good friends, is doing well in her classes, is involved, and seems well-rested and well-adjusted in every respect.  Thanks, God!

The Things are in 7th and 8th grade.  We had a rough start in homeschool this year.  So, after a month or so of muddling through, I got my act together.  We have ratcheted up our schooling quite a bit.  The bar has been set higher, and they are responding well.  I'll do a post on some things I've learned later.  They are both active in the youth group.  They are doing well.

Hubs & I were treated to a trip to Maui in September through his company.  Had I not had two Things at home, he would never have gotten me on that plane to return to the Midwest.  I keep trying to convince him we can make a move to Maui work.  He can do the tour guide thing in the day (he'd be good at that), and learn to play the ukelele and sing at night. (He'd be really good at that!)  I'll wait tables.  I can do that.  At those prices, surely the tips will be good!  Right?

Some October happies to ponder:

Autumn leaves and beauty
A new iPhone (ordered!)
A new season of Psych starts tomorrow! 
Thing 2's braces have been removed!
New Casting Crowns album!
THE CARDINALS ARE IN THE PLAYOFFS! (Oct baseball = always good)

What can you add?

Monday, May 16, 2011

Wow! May Already? (Baccalaureate)

I would like to tell you what all has occurred since my last blog.  The problem is, I don't really remember.  I haven't completely lost my mind, and I don't believe I have amnesia.  It is just a fact of life.  It whirls by, and those many moments you think you will remember forever become a blur.

Words that pop into my mind when I think about the last few months include homeschool (of course), ski trip, Hilton Head, rain, floods, hail, tornadoes, Easter, Mother's Day, AWANA, piano, Thing 2 (birthday), tall kids, The Big Boy (home), and the big one on my radar right now is:  GRADUATION. 

The big party is Friday night.  Between now and then, the to-do list is gargantuan.  After that, maybe I can blog, showing pictures with the cool new camera Hubby gave me for Christmas (that I am just figuring out).

I have lots of blogs doing flip-flops in my mind.  Steel yourself for some politics, religion, and some analysis about motivation.

But first, the Big Girl's Baccalaureate was last night.  Baccalaureate has changed a little since I was young.  I find myself thinking it has "dwindled".  Because it has become so politically correct to make sure these whipper snappers know that they don't HAVE to come because Baccalaureate is a decidedly Christian event, and because they make it clear it is "optional", many don't come.  Although in theory that is a sad thing, I can't say that I blame them.  Often it is a dry message from an elderly gentleman with whom they have nothing in common.  To be perfectly honest, I didn't really want to go.  I was tickled to see the speaker last night was a class Dad, who related well to them as well as the rest of us, and gave a good message.  I was glad I went. 

It was so sweet to see the Gideons brave the rain to stand outside and give Bibles to the kids as they exited.  The Big Girl giggled when she discovered they all knew her Grandpa, a fellow Gideon.

Before we braved the rain and celebrated with some Dairy Queen, I snapped a couple of shots with my phone. The first is The Big Girl, The Big Boy, Thing 1 and Thing 2:


Next is The Big Girl with her Daddy:


 I promise the real pictures with my cool new camera will be much better....if I ever hook the thing up to a computer. 

Friday, December 24, 2010

While You Were Sleeping (Christmas)

Hubby is singing at our Christmas Eve service tonight. He is singing one of my all-time favorite songs, "While You Were Sleeping" (Christmas version) by Casting Crowns. The lyrics are so powerful.

While You Were Sleeping

Oh little town of Bethlehem
Looks like another silent night
Above your deep and dreamless sleep
A giant star lights up the sky
And while you're lying in the dark
There shines an everlasting light
For the King has left His throne
And is sleeping in a manger tonight, tonight

Oh Bethlehem, what you have missed while you were sleeping
For God became a man
And stepped into your world today
Oh Bethlehem, you will go down in history
As a city with no room for its King
While you were sleeping
While you were sleeping

Mary shivers in the cold
Trying to keep the Savior warm
Born among the animals wrapped in dirty rags
Because there was no room for Him in the world He came to save

United States of America
Looks like another silent night
As we're sung to sleep by philosophies
That save the trees and kill the children
And while we're lying in the dark
There's a shout heard 'cross the eastern sky
For the Bridegroom has returned
And has carried His bride away in the night

America, what will we miss while we are sleeping
Will Jesus come again
And leave us slumbering where we lay
America, will we go down in history
As a nation with no room for its King
Will we be sleeping
Will we be sleeping

United States of America
Looks like another silent night

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Christmas Glow


Christmas is a
Whispering candle
Heard all over the world....
Whose fragile and flickering
Light touched men
Everywhere,
Leading them through
The night...in prayer
And understanding,
So that all men might share
The sacredness of the season,
And walk and talk together
With the Prince of Peace.


-Annette Victorin

Copied from Christmas Ideals, Vol 27, No. 6, November, 1970.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

O Come O Come Emmanuel

"Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she will call His name Immanuel." Isaiah 7:14

Oh, come, oh, come, Emmanuel,
And ransom captive Israel,
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, our Wisdom from on high,
Who ordered all things mightily;
To us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, oh, come, our Lord of might,
Who to your tribes on Sinai's height
In ancient times gave holy law,
In cloud and majesty and awe.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come O Rod of Jesse's stem,
From ev'ry foe deliver them
That trust your mighty pow'r to save;
Bring them in vict'ry through the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, O Key of David, come,
And open wide our heav'nly home;
Make safe the way that leads on high,
And close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, our Dayspring from on high,
And cheer us by your drawing nigh,
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
And death's dark shadows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Oh, come, Desire of nations, bind
In one the hearts of all mankind;
Oh, bid our sad divisions cease,
And be yourself our King of Peace.
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to you, O Israel!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Another Attempt at Advent


The last few years, I have felt led to celebrate Advent with our family. I started just with reading advent scriptures the first couple of weeks only to have it fall by the wayside with the busyness of the season. Last year we actually did some Advent activities for several days and stayed with the scriptures longer.

It is obvious that finishing what I started is something with which I struggle. The pile of unfinished scarves and socks is further evidence of this shortcoming.

So, I have been pondering Advent and how to create a situation I must see through. I decided the key is in the planning. So, as is my way, I started planning waaaay ahead. On Sunday. Ahem.

Okay, so I'll have to let you know later if it works. The idea, however, is that I bought some of those miniature stockings at our local discount store for $1 each. In each will be be tucked a scripture and a location. There are 24, with little white tags (straight from the office products dept of same store) labeling the days. I also picked up some treats. With four kids and a roommate (I'm sending a box to The Big Boy at college and including his roomie), it can be costly, so we are talking very low cost treats. It isn't about the wonderful gift, it is about the anticipation of our Savior. The treats just make it an exciting activity. I bought candy, chap stick, cheap toys, playing cards, beef jerky, and other whimsical items. I'm thinking the beef jerky was the most costly of the lot. Many little gifts like this can be purchased in the seasonal department. Another place to check out is the travel item section. Those little sodas in six packs are another idea. Boxes of snacks are always good.

I'll string the stockings across the front of the mantel and each day they will read the scripture and ponder it in their hearts. Of course they will. Then they will look at the location where their treat for that day is hidden.

The big boy has a box and the treats are in little bags and labeled by day, with scriptures attached. Well, almost. I'm doing that next. His covers him through finals, then he will join the rest of the family in our Advent adventure at home.

I'm hearing voices from "Christmas Vacation" in my head, "Sparky, you create expectations no family gathering can meet..." (or something like that) Voices, be gone!!!

Two great places for Advent ideas are:

Cathy's Christmas Cottage Advent Calendar

Teaching Mom's Advent Calendar

Even if you just do a couple of activities and a few scripture readings, it still is a step toward making Christmas about Jesus in your family.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

The Stockings Were Hung


When I was small, one of my favorite parts of Christmas was getting out my one very own ornament & my stocking. They were the two decorations that had my name on them. In the mix of things, they were mine. Allllllll mine.

Then, my mom started making stockings for everyone. Some were knitted, some crocheted, and some were stitched using counted cross-stitch. All were beautiful, and more importantly, all were different. Each pattern was chosen with the recipient in mind. Holly, whose nickname was Holly-Bear, had a red stocking, knitted, with a bear design. The bear was holding a sprig of holly. Mom made a stocking for each of her four kids, each of her four kids-in-law, and every single one of her grand kids. All 13. That would be 21. She also made a few as gifts, I believe.

Then, the tragedy of cancer entered in. Mom never met her last two grandchildren, numbers 14 & 15. That would be my Things 1 & 2. So we have dug around all these years, using old pet stockings and extras that were gifts for the older two. I kept thinking I would make them one, so theirs would be homemade, too. Last year was attempt #1. It was ok, but not just what I wanted. I only had one stocking, too. And by the time I finished it, I wasn't up for another one. Each year about this time I think about it, and either I get new ideas, or I have no hope of accomplishing the task in time for this year. Regardless, at ages 11 & 13, my Things remain stockingless. Until now.

Today, I ordered The Things stockings from Pottery Barn. No, they are not homemade. But they will have their names on them.

For Thing 1:



For Thing 2:



As much as I would love to, I'll never be able to make them a stocking from my mom. It's just one of those things that happens in life. Some day, maybe I'll make them all stockings. Maybe not. But at least now, they have their very own stockings, that are not hand-me-downs from siblings, (or worse yet, pets), and I don't have to cringe when we hang them up on Christmas Eve.

No, Christmas isn't about the stockings. It's about Jesus. It's also about family. Each year when we get out those stockings we talk about their Grandma and how much she loved them and how proud she would be of each of them. We remember how she always had Pringles and gum and lots of love and hugs for her grandchildren. We wonder just what stockings she might have made for The Things. Then we laugh, because she would have laughed. She knew how much it meant to have something that was just yours, with your name on it. She would be glad those Things finally have stockings.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Thankful


Thankful, thankful, thankful.

As I scurry about the kitchen, I hear it on the tv in the next room. I hear it on the radio. I hear it at church, see it on the blogs, and on Twitter. Everyone is thankful. Even my little Clementine orange sports a sticker, "Thankful for Cuties".

Thankful.

Grateful. Webster says thankful means "conscious of benefit received", or "well-pleased; glad".

Thankful.

Full of thanks.

Thankful.

Am I?

Thankful.

Why, yes, I am.

I'm thankful for my health. I'm thankful for my home. I'm thankful for my family. I'm thankful for everytime I laugh. Oh, yes, and I'm thankful for my orange Cuties.

Those are all good things. It's easy to be thankful for those.

What does God's word say about thankfulness? It says a whole lot. For example, Ephesians 5:19b-20 says, "Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ."

Sing & make music....from your heart to the Lord.......ALWAYS GIVING THANKS.....to God the Father.....for EVERYTHING....in the name of our LORD Jesus Christ.

There is a lot to be learned there.

Thankfulness is from our heart. Sayin' "I'm thankful" doesn't make it from the heart. Can you sing about it? Compose a trill about it? Search it out. Do you really mean it? Are you really glad?

Who do we thank? God the Father in the name of our LORD Jesus Christ. The Creator. The Prince of Peace. The Almighty. Makes sense.

We are supposed to always be thankful.

For everything.

Uh-oh.

I'm not up for composing a trill about the 9x13 glass pan that dropped on my foot last night.

Nope. Thankful is not what I was just then.

I'm not really sure that is what that means. Honestly. I can say, however, things sometimes happen that I just don't like, and I have learned that God always gives me a reason to be thankful.

I have a long way to go. I know that gratitude is a state of heart, and I need to be more grateful. I'm getting there. Sometimes it just takes living life to learn thankfulness. I'm thankful that I'm learning.

I think just pondering it all & searching my heart is another step on the journey.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Juggling Phantom Balls

I was inspired to write a post about this weekend after reading Staci's post about her weekend. I'm a copycat that way. Staci, just remember, imitation is the most sincere form of flattery....or something like that.

The last three or four weeks have been really busy with a vast array of activities & commitments. I kept thinking this week would be MUCH calmer. Heh.

Last Thursday, The Big Girl came home from a wonderful week at nursing camp to get turned around and leave again on Saturday morning for church camp. Unbelievably, Thing 1 also attended youth camp. I'm still astounded that he has aged so!

Youth camp required a 5:15 arrival at our church, requiring a 4 am wake up call. As is typical, bedtime was midnight-ish. You can do the math.

Once Thing 1 & The Big Girl were safely deposited on the bus, I headed to Walmart to make a grocery run. I feared returning to our home again with no groceries, as my remaining children may well have been planning a mutiny. After a fairly long grocery run, I got home, we had breakfast and headed out to the Air Show.

Now if anything makes a person more weary than a 4 am wake up call, it is standing out in hot, humid weather all day. However, I think I would have walked on coals to see the Blue Angels perform. There were many air acrobats that had us in suspense and amazed. My dad was there with us, and as a former pilot, he was a wealth of information. The Blue Angels performance filled me with awe. Each time they zoomed by, Thing 2 and I squealed giddily. I'm sure it was less than attractive for this middle-aged woman to squeal, but it was what it was.

We ended the evening cooking a few things for Father's Day dinner, then, exhausted, we hit the sack at 11ish. Wow, it was a long day.

Now we begin a new week. I have termed the phenomenon that is this week "Juggling Phantom Balls". You see, we may or may not be showing our house this week (no, it isn't listed yet. There is a reason for that. It isn't READY). If we don't show it this week, we will next week. We may or may not be going to Cedarville next week for a college visit. I may or may not be picking a friend up from the airport a couple of hours from here on Wednesday. I don't know if I'm juggling these balls or if they really aren't there, because I don't know what will happen yet. They aren't anything I can really grab on to, but there is something there, to be sure.

Tonight, though, we are definitely hosting our long-time friends in hopes of hiring him to be the general contractor on our new Timber-Frame house.

Kids at camp. House showings. College visits. Timber-Frame construction planning. I think I need to stop & take some time to pray a little more.

Monday, May 31, 2010

A Fun Old-Fashioned Family Camping Trip & Weekend

My extended family owns land about an hour from here on a small river. The river is a huge local recreational area where people camp, fish, swim, float, and just spend a lot of summer hours. The land we own has several great gravel bars, fishing holes, swimming & jumping spots, and some nice areas to camp. So, this weekend my brother & sister decided it is a great time for a Fun Old-Fashioned Family Camping Trip. We planned, like my other brother & family, to visit but not camp. Until Thursday night.

Thursday night was a tipping point, when the minions known as our children begged & begged until we did the unthinkable. We gave in. We decided to go camping.

Friday we were on the run as soon as our feet hit the ground. Because we hadn't camped in many (MANY) years, we were less than prepared. We popped up the little ol' pop up camper & cleaned it out. We made a list of all the items that needed to be replenished or replaced. After a four-hour trip to Walmart & Sam's, we loaded said camper with....stuff. Lots of it. We loaded 4-wheelers on a trailer, threw a bunch of....stuff....in the back of the Expedition and Pickup, baked a cake for Aunt D's birthday, packed, iced cake, loaded up our crew plus The Big Boy's Friend That is a Girl, K, and ..... wait. What about the little dog that lives in our house? Can't stay out, can't stay in, too late to board....so Benny loaded up, too, and we headed out.

We arrived at dusk. After setting up camp in the dark & digging around to find some hot dogs & marshmallows to roast for a fine & nutritious supper, we settled down to some campfire talk. It was lovely.

Picture the setting: The river flows just a few yards away....my brother's camper is a toy hauler that is larger than our first house. It has several large beds, several tv's, hot water, microwave, and....satellite. Fox News 24/7. Deluxe. Next to that is my sister's airstream with running water, generator, beds, kitchen, etc. Verry nice. They have awnings, carpet, space, organization. Then, next to that is our popup. No electricity. Water in large bottles & coolers only. Very little space for the stuff of 7 people. A luxury compared to our previous camping abode, a small tent, but still the runt of the litter. However, we did keep up with the Jones's. We, too, had an awning.

We had a relatively short night, waking at the first hint of light the next morning. It's funny how camping can make me a morning person. Then, after a big breakfast of 2 lbs of bacon, 2 lbs of sausage, eggs, fruit, coffee, juice, & croissants, we started a busy day of swimming, fishing, jumping, running, riding, and general playing.

Various family members & their dogs came and went through the day. We played hard and the evening brought several family members together for a Family Camping Birthday Dinner. We ate, had a Rainbow/Hippy Birthday cake, then settled in for some guitar music and conversation, when Ben (the dog) got sick. He started coughing and hacking and was terribly sick....all....night....long. I still don't know what was wrong, and he has improved significantly since he has rested at home for two days, nonetheless, it was a long & exhausting night.

Early Sunday morning meant time to load up & head home in time to shower & go to church. A Sunday afternoon nap did wonders for us, and we then unloaded & began what will be at least of week of clean up for the two night trip. At this writing, I begin to hyperventilate when I near the laundry room, and a trip through the sleeping bed/camping-supply-laden living room brings tears to my eyes.

Just when one would think the weekend is winding down, Thing 1 has a church event, and The Big Boy is assigned the task of retrieving the Thing after the event. However TBB didn't make it. He met up with a sign on the highway & after the fight, I think the sign won. Thus, Mom became dispatcher, sending Dad to the scene and The Big Girl to retrieve the Thing.

After everyone returned home & we rehashed the events of the day while eating some rather scrumptious sandwiches (made from the 10.7 lbs of lunchmeat left from the trip), we settled down for a movie. I'm told I didn't last through the opening credits....since I don't remember a solitary thing about the movie, I'm sure they are right.

About 1 am, hubby woke me to....oh, YOU thought I was going to say to go to bed. WRONG! No, it was time to watch the rest of "24"...the rest of the season.

Yes, we watched Jack fight the good fight until about 4:30 am. (Much better ending than Lost, in my opinion) So, today is a day of laundry, paperwork, cleaning, and general zoning out. In four days we have managed to knock three vehicles out of capacity with dead batteries, flat tires, and a battle with a sign. The poor dog is still staggering around in a daze. I'm not sure how long it will take to recuperate from this weekend, but I'm fairly sure there is potential for another "National Lampoon's Vacation" movie in the mix.

Ah, now I believe I have had enough writing therapy to face the monsters in the laundry room once again. Tomorrow is a new day. The diet/exercise starts anew. Normal sleep patterns shall emerge. And this weekend shall be a fond memory...

Please don't let this weekend pass without remembering the men & women who serve our country in armed services. They & their families deserve our support and prayers. Especially lift up in prayer & support the families of those who have paid the ultimate price for our freedom. We are eternally grateful for their sacrifice.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Hope

Today in church a lady sang one of my favorite songs. By the time it was over, I was a puddle in the pew. Then, our pastor gave a fabulous message from 2 Corinthians 4:7-11:

7But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus' sake, so that his life may be revealed in our mortal body.

The bottom line? God wants us to be cracked pots. Scarred, broken beyond mending; and don't try to hide the cracks or cover them up. It is so we can be full of Jesus and He can shine through the cracks. I am broken, cracked beyond mending. I find myself thinking it's for naught. Today reminded me why it is; so He can be manifested through me.

Our pastor's sermons are some of the best teaching I have ever heard. You can find links to them at CapeBibleChapel.org

Oh, the song?


Our Hope Endures
Sung by Natalie Grant

You would think only so much can go wrong
Calamity only strikes once
And you assume that this one has suffered her share
Life will be kinder from here

Sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear
But our hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

How do we comprehend peace within pain
Our joy at a good man's wake
Walk a mile with a woman whose body is torn
With illness but she marches on

Sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear
But our hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient
Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient
Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient

We never walk alone
This is our hope
Our hope endures, the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
let the earth quake
let the earth quake
let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

I never walk alone. My hope, because it is in Christ, remains unchanged.

Friday, February 26, 2010

Soup & Sandwiches

The best thing about cool weather is the cooking. I love soups and warm, cozy comfort food. Of course, I like warm weather better, but every cloud has it's silver lining.....

Spring is coming soon; I know it is true because the sun was still shinin' tonight at almost six. The days are getting longer and I'm reveling in each extra minute of sunshine.

Regardless, it is still cold out and I can still cook some cold weather food. So, I did. I'm making Shelly's Wild Rice Soup and Hawaiian Sandwiches. The soup recipe will follow, and the sandwich recipe may be found here.

Shelly's Wild Rice Soup

My sister sent this recipe from a friend of hers. It is easy and wonderfully good.

Prepare 1 box Zatarans Long Gran & Wild Rice as directed

Saute: 1 stick butter, 1 sweet onion, chopped, 3 carrots, 1/2 C celery. Add 1/2 lb mushrooms sliced thinly & 1 1/2 C Canadian bacon, chopped.

*I have used chicken and ham, as I don't keep Canadian Bacon on hand. They are great substitutes

Cook until soft & add 3/4 C flour to vegetables. Stir well. Wisk in 2 (26 oz) containers chicken stock. Add the cooked rice. Just before serving add 1 C half & half. Optional: chopped chives on top. It makes a large batch.

This soup is very filling and flavorful. Enjoy!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Parent-Teacher Conferences

The good thing about homeschooling is that you can talk to yourself and claim you are having a parent-teacher conference. Or, you can schedule a date night with your husband in the name of needing a "conference". A parent-teacher conference is a flexible thing in the homeschool world.

Not so in the public school world.

I still have one child in the public school systems. Last night was conference night. I anticipated a night of bad news, given The Big Girl's level of stress the last few weeks. Overall, it was much more pleasant than that.

The music teachers love her, and think she is hard-working and sweet. The history teacher thinks she is doing great and is hard-working. The LA teacher thinks she is polite and hard-working. The Chemistry teacher thinks she is doing great and is hard-working. The math teacher has high hopes because she is so very hard-working. Though the class is very difficult, she'll do fine. Are we seeing a pattern here? Oh, then there are the Spanish teachers who love her, and think she is, yes, hard-working, and has a natural ability in Spanish and should major or minor in it in college. Wow. Then we go to ACT Prep. ACT Prep has two teachers. The first thinks she is doing great. Why the poor grade in that class from a student that primarily gets A's? Hmmm....well....she has almost all A's in my part of the class. Better talk to the other teacher.

And the fun began.

Getting on a merry-go-round and singing at the top of my lungs would have been more productive. The teacher never figured out who my daughter was, and spent the entire conversation lamenting the poor grammar skills of the high school students. Apparently seven out of eight students in her class, after weeks of instruction, still cannot identify the subject and verb in a sentence. So, she is attempting to teach juniors the grammar they should have grasped by third or fourth grade. Eight years of grammar in one semester. For ACT Prep.

Oh, and my daughter? She was the one out of eight who got the questions right. She had no idea she had a poor grade in the class because she has never seen her tests since they were graded. She doesn't know what to work on because she doesn't know what she missed.

I was left scratching my head in wonder and amazement. I'm so thankful for all the other teachers because their reports were consistent and positive. I'm choosing to dwell on them, but I'm left questioning how in the world to help The Big Girl keep from sabatoging her GPA with this class. And I'm looking forward to tonight, when I can have a homeschool-style parent-teacher conference, snuggled up to my husband.

Monday, February 22, 2010

I'm Not Too Sure About This.....

My sweet children have discovered Skype . The Big Boy was home this weekend, visiting with his friend-that-is-a-girl via Skype.
"You mean we can talk to YOU that way?" they asked their big brother with hopeful excitement.

"Yes, if you get an account."

Thanks, Big Bro.

Really, it isn't so bad as long as I never go near the computer when it is on.

Why?

Well, if you have used Skype, you know the first thing that happens is a flash of "what YOU look like".

Having just crawled out of bed this morning, sipping on my first cup of coffee after a very long night being up with Thing 2, I wasn't prepared. In fact I was truly scared. I thought, "Who the heck is THAT?" Then I realized. Then I started researching surgeons.

Oh, dear. Twitter, texting, calling...all that is great. Because you can't see me! Skype? I don't know if all the makeup in the world will make that tolerable.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Four-Day Sour Cream Cake

At Thanksgiving, the "hit" of the dinner was a cake that my dad's wife brought. She left some for my family and my husband allllmost refused to share. I thought it may come to blows until I offered to get the recipe. Thus, hope sprang eternal that this may not be the last of this fabulous cake.

So, I called Dad's wife, S, and discovered that she got the recipe from an old church cookbook, and it was originally from my brother's mother-in-law. Aren't small towns grand?

So, in hopes I have sufficiently given credit where it is due, I am sharing this unbelievable recipe with you. It is a cross between a coconut-cream-pie shake and cake. Trust me. Delicious.

I'm planning to have it at the one meal I get to cook for The Big Boy this weekend. Given how the week is gone, it will have to be a Two-Day cake instead of Four, but I'm sure we will survive.

Four-Day Sour Cream Cake

1 butter flavored yellow cake mix
2 C sugar
16 oz sour cream
12 oz frozen coconut (I used regular non-frozen coconut)
1 1/2 C Cool Whip

Combine sugar, sour cream, and coconut. Blend well. Chill 4 hours. Reserve 1 C for frosting. Remaining is to be spread between layers.

Mix cake as directed on package. Bake in 2 (9 in) layer pans. When cool, split to make four layers.

Mix the 1 C sour cream mixture with Cool Whip. Spread first mixture between layers then ice the cake with remaining Cool Whip mixture. Store in airtight container for four days. Can be eaten before, but gets more moist with time.

The Longest Month of the Year

Don't let the calendar fool you. Anyone who lives anywhere north of Miami can tell you that contrary to the long-held belief that February, because it has only 28 days (excepting leap years, of course), is the shortest month of the year, for all practical purposes, it is the longest.

The poor football fans are left with nothing to do. Baseball fans are in eager anticipation of the beginning of their season. March madness is not quite here. The sun doesn't shine for weeks on end. The kids are climbing the walls wanting to play outside, but it is so cold they can't last long. The stores and shops are full of bikinis and shorty-shorts while we look at our own pasty white skin and fluffy winter bodies and cringe. Some cling to Valentine's Day as a special holiday, when in reality, most barely tolerate it or even scorn it because we have figured out it is a floral/greeting card induced holiday that just isn't all "that".

If February was any longer, I don't think we could take it.

In our little corner of the world, it hasn't been much better. In the beginning of the month, Thing 1 closed the car door on his thumb. It was ugly. Thankfully, xrays revealed nothing broken, but he couldn't play guitar or piano for two full weeks. Well, we all think he may have been able to, and he may have just milked it for all it was worth. No one knows for sure. Then I got a kidney infection. No one had seen Mom stay in bed for that long, let alone take a nap eight times each day. The bright spot in it all was Disciple Now weekend, where we had a house full of tenth grade boys and college dudes as leaders. They ate a lot. God moved. It was our February time to get out of our schedules and comfort zones and watch God work, which is always fascinating and enlightening. Oh, and sometimes exhausting. Thing 1 and The Big Girl participated in other homes, and we missed them. In the week following when I was to clean and catch up laundry before The Big Boy comes home from school, every spare minute has been at the hospital where Hubby's father has been for nine days now. He went in last week because the eye doctor noticed some abnormalities that led him to check BP. After spending a couple of days in ICU trying to get his BP under control, he was given some shocking diagnoses that led to surgery this week. We are praising God that he is doing well and we are amazed at how God orchestrated the whole thing to discover what was wrong before something really bad happened.

This weekend The Big Boy is coming home. The Things are participating in the Music Festival which has them such bundles of nerves that emotions are raw. The laundry in the laundry room is roughly the height of The Big Boy, and I doubt it gets much better upon his return tonight, but I don't care because I need a hug. Because, you see, as I sit typing this, the message light on the phone is blinking next to me and I know what it is. The soccer coach is letting me know when we first get to sit out in sub-zero temps watching kids kick around a little white ball.

And there is still a week left in this never-ending month.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Four Days....and "24"

Four days. I'm on the fourth day of not leaving my home. I'm definitely not the type to stay home two days in a row. Four? I didn't even do that when I had a baby. Nope. There was baseball, work, groceries...any excuse. Snow days? That is simply an invitation to GET OUT. I DEFY the weather to dish up anything that will keep me in. (Maybe that will get us some snow...?) I can't imagine anything that would keep me in for four days. Until now. What has kept me in? Why, it is simple. There has been no reason to leave. That and a mild tummy condition that kept me in the one time I had a reason to get out.....

Anyway. It has been delightful. The laundry is as caught up as it gets. There is ALWAYS laundry because, of course, we aren't exactly going to not have clothes on just so I can get completely caught up. But, I digress. I have cleaned linens this week that actually were soiled during Thanksgiving dinner. That is ridiculous, I know. Believe me, I'm glad it is done.

I've blogged. Twice.

The house is relatively picked up...sort of.....well, I'll vacuum after this. I promise.

My kids have so much school work ready for them they will have NO excuse to waste time on any given day.

And.....drumroll......we still have milk. Normally when NOTHING else works, the milk thing gets me out. I thought ahead. Six gallons may have seemed like a lot at the time, but hey. I'm still here.

On an aside....."24" started last night. I haven't decided how I feel about this season just yet. I found it to be a bit....predictable...when one of its primary strengths is that "24" isn't predictable. I'm forever frustrated by silly things...the first two years it was that Jack couldn't figure out how to turn the ringer off on his phone. He would sneak down the hall, mere feet from a bad guy with a big gun and...riiiiiiiiinnnnngg! How that guy never heard it I will never know. Last night it was the bad guy. Typically when the street is full of people looking at the aftermath of an exploding helicopter on a roof, one won't stroll slong through the crowd talking on the cell about how the guy is dead and now we need to focus on the assassination and move the time up, etc....because...hello? THEY WILL HEAR!!!! The other scene that had me yelling at my tv was when Kim is telling Jack he must stay and help because if he didn't and something happened, well, he just wouldn't forgive himself. This from the person who NEVER wanted him to stay and help. Not to mention that after all he had been through, I'm thinking, yep, I'd be able to live with it just fine. I suppose season 8 wouldn't be so appealing if it was all about Jack taking his grandchild to the zoo and reading Dr. Seuss to her. So, he had to stay.

So, tonight, this last night before I finally venture from my home, I will give it another shot and presumably become thoroughly hooked. In the meantime, supper and vacuuming await me. Enjoy your night!

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Help Haiti



If you have a heart for the people in Haiti, please consider giving to Compassion. The statement from Compassion's website:

"All funds raised in response to the Haiti earthquake will be used immediately to reequip Compassion's local support structure and to provide for the immediate needs of Compassion-assisted children and families. Any funds raised in excess will be stewarded by Compassion for additional and future disaster relief efforts."

Please pray about contributing to this worthy organization.